Articles
Practical guides on desire, intimacy, communication and pleasure, written from the work of the sexologists, psychologists and gynecologists who create WeSex content.
Married and new to sex: what the first months of intimacy really look like
You waited, and now intimacy is here. A sexologist's guide to the first months: nerves, pain, pressure to perform, and how to build pleasure together, step by step.
8 min readHow to talk about sex with your spouse when nobody ever taught you how
Grew up without a vocabulary for sex and now you're married? A sexologist's step-by-step guide to talking about intimacy with your spouse without shame or blame.
7 min readOne of you always wants more sex than the other. Here is what sexologists actually recommend
A desire gap is the most common issue couples bring to sex therapy. Why it happens, why guilt and pressure make it worse, and the steps that close it.
4 min readAfter the kids, the spark faded. Here is why, and how couples get it back
Desire after children rarely disappears; it changes shape. Sex therapists explain the "roommate" trap, responsive desire, and the small moves that bring the spark back.
4 min readHow to last longer in bed, according to sexologists (and why pressure is the real problem)
Lasting longer starts with dropping the stopwatch. A sexologist's guide: why anxiety speeds things up, breathing and focus techniques, and what to do after.
4 min readYou want to explore, but where do you even start? A sexologist's map
Exploring doesn't begin with toys or positions. Sexologists share the order that works: your own map, your fantasies, the five senses, role play, then toys.
4 min readHow to ask for what you want in bed, in words that land
Most people were taught to be desired, not to desire out loud. Sexologists share the exact phrasing, timing and techniques to ask for what you want in bed.
4 min readStress killed your desire. Here is what is happening in your body and how to get it back
Under stress the nervous system switches sex off: it's biology, not a broken libido. Sexologists explain the mechanism and a daily practice to get desire back.
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